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In
my seminars the last few years I have covered what I have found to be
those few, simple, basic principles that can make major changes in life
and lifestyle. One of those
subjects that gets the most comment is: Diseases
of Attitude. And out of
that subject, worry and how to kick the worry habit, have caused the
most questions. So, in this
brief visit with you, let me give you my best look at worry, how to
recognize it and define it, and what to do about it.
And hopefully these ideas will give you a good chance for
confidence over worry. First
of all, worry might well be killer number one.
And if it is not the number one physical killer, although doctors
tell us worriers die sooner than non-worriers, and we have all heard the
expression “worry yourself to death,” at least it is the number one
killer of dreams and achievement, of energy and vitality, and lifestyle. I
know the damage and effect of this killer - worry, firsthand.
I will spare you the details, but over a period of some three
years I let worry get out of hand.
As I’ve mentioned before, I became a super worrier.
I was good at it. The
combination of small and big worries about my circumstances, what people
thought of me, my finances, my abilities, the future, my progress, all
led to a complete physical collapse.
A stay in the hospital, emotional, mental, and physical
exhaustion, and a deep despair I couldn’t shake.
A sad picture for a young man who should have been well on his
way to carving out his share of opportunity.
I
am happy to tell you that good fortune came my way. And as many of you may be aware, I met a man, Mr. Earl Shoaff.
With his ideas and inspiration and the help of a very close
friend, I worked my way past the minefields of worry and disaster, and
out into the clear air of mental sunshine.
And if I did it, anybody can do it.
I’m
not saying it’s easy. It
took me almost a full year to kick the worry habit.
It took practice and much effort, but it was well worth it.
Remember, don’t ask for the task to be easy, just ask for it to
be worth it. Don’t wish
it were easier - wish you were better.
Don’t ask for less challenge - ask for more skills.
Don’t ask for fewer problems - ask for more wisdom.
It’s the challenge that makes the experience.
And life, and its color and meaning and adventure for you, is
this collection of experiences. To
wish them away is to wish your life away.
So,
let’s get to worry and what it is and what it does, how to define it,
and what to do about it. And
let’s do it with eager, high hopes that it won’t be long until you
will be free of the worry habit and on your way to the life and
lifestyle that you want. |
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